Long time never actually write anything here liao. Many many things happened recently. Like Ares gathering since graduation, my best friend got "R.O.M"(wedding dinner next month), another one had her housewarming, yet another 1 settled her wedding dinner, oh also got 1 BMT friend had his wedding dinner settled. 4 good things happening in such a short time, 3 best friends settled down, sometimes lead me to think if I should reconsider "my policy" also... but the ONE has not appear, not since that one.....
I'm in the midst of my 2nd reservist now actually, 2 of 3 weeks down, 1 more to go(which I know will fly past). Stayed in last week for 3 nights, and as I lay in bed, I can't help thinking back at those times while serving NS, while
she was my mental support, the nights I stay awake talking to her, risking punishment if I'm caught, or sms-ing her whole day and night even if I'm on duty, and many many more memories.... But that's all history now, isn't it? And the irony is that she's not even my gf... well, I tried, but it was never meant to be. Met her the other day, we had some time to catch up with each other, I still know why I fell for her, but I don't think there should be a
Part 2, for we have an
"irreconcilable difference".Let's talk happier things! My best friend had his ROM in his new flat(rented till his real new flat is ready). We were a tiny bit late, coz we had a little bit of waiting to do, but we appeared at the last moment as things got started. It is a really joyous occasion, my best friend married!! Well, actually felt that I haven't really communicated with him for some time, and the bond is a bit rusty, but he's still classified as my best friend. My tears almost flow as he took the vow. I suddenly realised that he's already grown up, a MAN now, someone's husband, no longer the boys we were when we first met 10 years ago, and maybe I should grow up now too...? Ok, and he spoiled the emotion when he drop the ring while going to put it onto his wife's finger, and have to search for it, creating laughter in the house.
Next, my
"auntie's" wedding dinner. Hehe.... always called her auntie coz she's 4 years my senior, but we can really clique, used to spent hours each time talking to her on the phone, and we always have things to talk even when there is no topic, haha, same frequency. But we talked less after "uncle" entered her life, but the bond is still there
=) I'm so happy for her, finally met her Prince Charming(by the road as she said herself), and now settled down. Joy still used to tease me if I and "auntie" could develop further, which "auntie" and me know flatly that it's a
no. As I watch the presentation of her growing up to the wedding, I got emotional again, but nope, I controlled my tears again. I'm too emotional huh?
Next, ARES long-awaited gathering! Well, for those who don't know,
Ares is my orientation group while I studied in SIM, and we manage to stick together even after so long. This is a hard-to-come-by-gathering as all of us are busy with our own lives now, and I believe such a gathering will be harder to come by as everyone get more involved into their job. As usual, not full strength was there, but it is already considered a great effort by those who attended. Had a surprise appearance by Sanipher who wasn't expected to be able to attend as she's training to be a Navy officer. She really surprised everyone but me(coz I'm the coordinator =P). Oh ya, we stay at the brand new Siloso Beach Resort, which isn't fully completed yet. Thanks to Karen who organised this. Although the group didn't do much active activities other than swimming in the pool(as I stay dry to sms), and the skyride and luge ride, it was a warm and cozy feeling as the group walk together, eat together, talk together, and sleep together in the room. 10 people squeezing in that room, if I recalled correctly
=P Nice feeling.
And the day I checked out of the resort, I went down directly to Junice's housewarming, but picking up Wendy and her heavy present along the way. Were the first ones to reach there, so as usual, a bit of waiting at the void deck for the rest. Junice came down to join us as we're the first to arrive, and chatted a bit before we headed upstairs. Took a small tour of her house, nicely done up but missing her signature hamsters
=P Junice has a really nice character and is really cute. We like to tease her but she never seems to get angry, maybe that's how she ended up in my exclusive group of good friends(>10). Hang around her place for quite some time, and our YJ 'gang' discuss that maybe we will go for
The Phantom of the Opera next March together. We'll see how things turn up.
=)Last event before I go to sleep, past midnight and have to book in tomorrow. Daviz's wedding dinner! My BMT bunk mate! Dinner was held at Expo, a bit far but never mind as it's a joyous occasion. A little surprised that he only invited 3 of us, so I kinda feel quite honoured.
=) Daviz is a simple guy, with a signature laugh that comes a few second slow
=P He was so cute when he said on stage that he want to thank his wife for accepting a 笨笨的他（a stupid stupid guy like him). Haha, that's the simple Ah-Poh we know.
Ok, long update here. Better end it, need to grab some rest. Take care people!
