Friday, March 18, 2005

Short but puzzling question.

???Why is it that the people I like don't like me and I don't like those who like me???

Monday, March 14, 2005

And I thought I'm never gonna update this again......

Yes, that's right, 1st post in over a month, and I guess some of you might have thought I'm never gonna update again, just like I thought myself.

Maybe I really didn't want to come here to post again, or I'm feeling old, but at this point of time, I think this is a good place to voice my view on a certain topic that someone around me is in. I'm pretty sure she will not read this, but if she does, then I hope she'll do something about it. As for the rest of you, if you wanna read some poor English typed in a fury, just read on, it's just some grunting.

I also dunno how to start this off. Well, it just goes like this...... If you have a boyfriend for 7 months, and you're planning to live your life with him forever, why would you wanna try to sabotage yourself and do things that he will not be happy with and will do you no good in the long run? Just because he can't be by your side now due to his work, then you can find other guys to go out with? And those guys are those who had express interest in you before! Can you ever put yourself in your bf's shoes? How insecure would the bf feel.... and you keep complaining that he never put himself in your shoes, yet you're doing stupid things like this. Guys are 'vinegar jars', few guys will be willing to let their gf go out with guys who had some 'history' with their gf, this would only put pressure on them, and possibly strain the relationship. Never ever trust guys, I'm a guy too. Just because the other guy having a gf now does not mean he has let you go, especially if you remember how he had 'let it all out' and all the action just a few months back. You are in a relationship, he is in a relationship, and what are you trying to do? Allow him to get close again and in the end sabotaging both yours and his relationship? He may have provide you with companionship and fun in the past, but now that you are in a relationship, do R-E-S-P-E-C-T your bf who is away and not able to accompany you. It's just the same thing if the opposite happens: you're away and he's here meeting up other close female friends who had chased him before, and having fun. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like this feeling. If you don't want anyone to find out what you had done, don't do it in the 1st place! Do not ask me to lie or hide the truth! I don't need to do all this for you, and I can tell you straight in the face I do not like to lie, nor hide things from others if they asked. You are a fun-loving creature, but in a relationship, C-O-M-M-I-T-M-E-N-T should come before fun, and if you want your kind of fun more than commitment, don't get into a relationship, end up hurting yourself, your bf, and maybe in the process break up the 3rd party's relationship. It's exactly because your bf knows what kind of person you are that he's always so worried. And yet you complain so much about him when you yourself do not knowing your own limits and doing things which he fears. What are you trying to prove? Are you trying to test him to the limits and break off with you? He has done his part by deleting his other female friends contacts, and telling them he's attached if they do look him up. I think it is time for you to do your part too, if you're still interesting in maintaining this relationship. You can carry on doing what you are doing if you like, but if you do, I do not foresee your relationship lasting for another 6 months, if it gets past this 2 months 1st. And what the hack? This is none of my business anyway! Just don't come crying at me if things goes wrong if you insist on living life YOUR WAY.